The life story of Khadija bint Khuwaylid (RA) is one of faith, strength, dignity, and unwavering support in the early days of Islam.
Early Life
Khadija (RA) was born in Mecca around 555 CE into the noble Quraysh tribe. Her father, Khuwaylid ibn Asad, was a respected and wealthy merchant. From a young age, Khadija (RA) was known for her intelligence, honesty, and noble character. Because of her purity and moral excellence, she was given the title "At-Tahirah" (The Pure One).
She grew up in a society where women were often treated unfairly, yet she became one of the most successful businesswomen of her time. After inheriting her father's trade business, she managed large caravans that traveled to Syria and Yemen. Her reputation for fairness and honesty made her highly respected in Mecca.
Marriage to Prophet Muhammad (SAW)
Khadija (RA) first heard about the truthfulness and trustworthiness of Muhammad (SAW), who was known as Al-Amin (The Trustworthy). She hired him to manage her trade caravan to Syria. When he returned with great success and honest profit, she was deeply impressed by his character.
Although she was 40 years old and he was 25, Khadija (RA) proposed marriage to him. Their marriage was built on love, respect, and trust. It was a peaceful and blessed union. She was the only wife of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) for 25 years until her death.
They had six children together, including Fatimah (RA), who later became one of the most beloved women in Islamic history.
The First Believer in Islam
When Prophet Muhammad (SAW) received the first revelation in the Cave of Hira from Angel Jibreel (AS), he returned home trembling and afraid. Khadija (RA) comforted him with powerful and reassuring words. She said that Allah would never disgrace him because he was truthful, kind to the poor, generous to guests, and helpful to the needy.
She became the first person to accept Islam — the first believer in the message of Allah. Her faith never wavered. She supported the Prophet (SAW) emotionally, spiritually, and financially during the most difficult times.
When the Quraysh persecuted the early Muslims, Khadija (RA) spent her entire wealth to support Islam and protect the believers. During the harsh boycott against the Prophet's family in the valley of Abu Talib, she endured hunger and hardship with patience.
The Year of Sorrow
After years of struggle and sacrifice, Khadija (RA) passed away around 619 CE in Mecca. The Prophet (SAW) was deeply heartbroken. That year was called "The Year of Sorrow" because he also lost his uncle Abu Talib shortly after.
The Prophet (SAW) never forgot Khadija (RA). He often spoke about her love and loyalty, even years after her death. He would send gifts to her friends and praise her virtues. He once said that she believed in him when others rejected him and supported him when others opposed him.
Her Legacy
Khadija (RA) remains a powerful example for Muslim women and men around the world. She was:
A successful businesswoman
A loving wife
A devoted mother
The first believer in Islam
A symbol of patience, generosity, and faith
Her life teaches us about trust in Allah, loyalty in marriage, courage in hardship, and the importance of supporting truth.
May Allah be pleased with Khadija (RA), the Mother of the Believers, and grant us the ability to follow her noble example. Ameen.