Loving a dead person

My name is Kai Mike Fireheart, I'm 16 and I'm the only guy in my family of 5. My father is Xavier Fireheart. My mother is Luna Fireheart. I have 3 little sister's, their triplets and all are 10. There's Lenny who's the youngest, Jenny in the middle and Penny was first. My father has black hair, white skin, brown eyes and was 40 years old. My mother had red hair, brown eyes, white skin and she was 36 yeas old. I had black hair with brown eyes and white skin. Penny had red hair with brown eyes and light white skin. Jenny had black hair with bright brown eyes. And Lenny had mostly red hair but there was a few punches of black hair in her bangs, she had dark brown eyes ans pale white skin.