Me jab class 8th ya 9th me padhti thi. Me samajhdar Bachpan se hi thi mere ko her viyakti thik lagta tha.lekin mujhe ye nahi pta tha ki vo samne jo viyakti hai vo kitna thik hai to me her viyakti par bharosa karti thi or us age me her baccha kisi par bhi bharosha kar leta hai.lekin me kahi na kahi sab samjh jati thi ye jo samne viyakti hai vo kya chahta hai ya kitna thik hai. Her ek ladki ke pass vo power hoti hai jo ladkiyan aaj bhi nahi samjh payi kyuki un ladkiyon ko shirf ye samjh aata hai ki samne jo viyakti hai vo shirf unhi ke liye hai or bahut hi jyada unko chata hai unko unke parents se jyada samjhta hai.Lekin her viyakti acha mile her viyakti ko to aesa nahi hota hai.
Ladkiyon ko ye samjh apne andar se Bahar nikalni hogi ki vo sabse jyada samjh sakti hai samne kesa viyakti hai ache se pahchan sakti hai.or her ladki ko ye samjhna hoga ki unke perents unko bahut acha samjhte hai other koi or viyakti nahi. perents chaye kitne bhi garib kyu na ho.vo apne baccho ko her samaye acha hi feel karate hai or her jarurate puri karte taki unka baccha aage bhad sake or unke baccho ko vo takalif na ho jo unhe huyi unki jindagi me.to her ladki ko samjhna chahiye ki unke perents se jyada samjhane or samjhne vala viyakti Koi nahi hota jab tk vo samahjhdar nahi ho jati. or yaha samjhdar hone ka matlab ye nahi hai ki vo khana khana, school ache se jana,mehmano se aache se baate karna etc.yaha samjhdar hone ka matlab hai ki samne vale viyakti ko dekh kar pta karna ki vo kesa hai uski baato se andaj lgana ki vo cahata kya hai. kyuki bina matlab ke to koi viyakti ya koi vastu kuch bhi nahi karti sansar me her jeev,vastu ka koi na koi kuch na kuch Karan hota hi hota hai. ( is topic par agli story me baat karege)Yaha samjhdar hone ka matlab yahi hai ki her ladki ko her viyakti ko samjhna chahiye pahle or samjhna bhi jaldi hi chahiye der na ho or ladkiyon ke andar psychology ke anusaar samjhne ki power ladko se jyada hoti hai.Me nahi chahti ki jo mene galti ki vo koi or ladki kare. (continue the next day)