"So, for now, I cannot decide. It's hard for me to make a final decision. Moreover... the time you both have known and interacted with me hasn't even been a year. I thought maybe if more time passes, it could test whether our feelings are genuine, or if it's just a temporary need during a certain period. Perhaps after some time, you might find me too shallow, too fickle, too lecherous and decide to leave me. Or maybe you'll discover I'm deeply cultured and knowledgeable and can't leave me. All these are possible, so... could you give me, give us all some time?"
Li Yan used a delay tactic, and this was the best way.
