"I really can't stand you bunch of Old Six, why do I have to do this every time?"
The Fairy King grumbled as he logged in.
The solution Sophia provided was actually quite simple, boiled down to one sentence: "Those who are favored always have nothing to fear."
In layman's terms, don't care about dignity, how can you have a harem if you care?
If your skin is so thin that you're too guilty to face others directly, it'll only put you in a passive position. If you want to safely navigate this Asura Field, you have to get tough, turn passive into active.
More bluntly: What are you doing here? Do you love me or not? Is this how you love me? Someone who truly loves me wouldn't make things difficult for me, I don't want to hear it, I just want an attitude, you're making me feel very insecure....
With this smooth combo of soft skills, as long as the other person genuinely cares about you, they will have to surrender first.
And once you have the upper hand, things become much easier.
