Just like, if Alvin loves so deeply, he should consider whether his profession is suitable for Nangong Ran and whether it might bring her harm.
There's nothing wrong with the profession itself; the crux is whether the person you want to be with is the one you deeply love.
If it's someone you deeply love, you wouldn't bear for them to suffer even the slightest grievance, let alone hardships in the world.
Therefore, Di Mingchen is not unmanly; he's too manly!
Just like her, if Gu Qibao doesn't like his profession, he would undoubtedly give it up immediately without hesitation.
But Di Mingchen can't just give up, even if he wanted to, because Di Mingzhe is about to run for President.
If Di Mingchen just wanted to find a woman, that would be easy. He could casually choose someone pleasing to the eye and have her quietly stay at home.
He wouldn't need to overly care about her moods and emotions. After all, being a military spouse is challenging.
